Love

I've long been intrigued by the notion of equal attraction; that is, the theory that if you are attracted to someone, he or she is attracted to you. I know it can't be true 100% of the time, but the fact that so many countless millions of couples end up together, we can't dismiss the idea in its entirety. Many times, I've been surprised to find that women I've had a crush on, actually felt the same way about me. It makes sense in a way. Nature is a very equalizing force. Water finds its own level. If someone likes another, that attraction is felt and if reciprocated, is intensified, and so on and so on. If the opposing party wants nothing to do with you, that aura is sensed, and quickly brings you down a level or two. Bottom line: If you feel a certain way about anot…

We hear it said frequently, don't we? "He's my soul mate," one coos. "I haven't yet found my soul mate," bemoans another.

So what does it mean? Presumably, the soul mate quest suggests that somewhere out there in the world waiting just for you, is the one and only person who can set your world on fire (figuratively speaking, of course. We will presume she's not an arsonist). This is, of course, utter nonsense!

We are supposed to be believe that out of 8 billion people on planet Earth, the one person who is your perfect match for all eternity just happens to be sitting acroos the aisle from you in your Psych 101 class? Do you know what the odds are of that? Assuming a class size of 23 students, the odds of that happening are one in 363 million. And this allegedly happens on a pretty regular bas…